Of crumbling relations

Broken families and shattered hearts litter our society in numbers impossible to comprehend. Friends, acquaintances, family. There's bound to be people you know who have experienced love and lost it.

Among these people, there may be those who find their ways around to loving another. There may also be those who wallow in sorrow and practically never move on. Two choices, two walks of lives. Which is the better of the two?

Losing loved ones is an unavoidable fact of life. Either through death, quarrels or other circumstances beyond our control. And once the loss has occured, we try to find a way of coping.

There are many ways in which loss can be handled. Some forget it, some live with it, and some seem to drown themselves in it. Sooner or later, in happiness or sadness, with or without someone new, you will learn to move on.

Each relationship that you go through brings with it much hardship and ordeals. Along with those squabbles, frustration, anger and anxiety will be felt. And the end results are usually the same; Sadness, disappointment and trepidation.

Yet again there are bound to be sweet memories amid all those times spent together. Sweet memories that become the heart and soul of relationships.

When these relationships break apart, all that will be left is their heart and soul. All that will be left is memories. Memories that will stand the test of time. Memories that will forever be in your subconscious. And as you continue on in life, you find it playing a vital role in you as a person.

Be glad. For even amids crumbling relations, memories still live on. Experience love. Lose it. Above all, always remember it.